A while ago i remember asking if i could recieve the henchmen items without actually having to run around with them. And i believe bj here told me it didn't work that way.
NOW, i just tried to talk with tomi, had to hire him first of course, but i was high enough lvl to talk through the whole conversation and since i had the item he needed he gave me his ring. Wanted to test if this worked on the others as well, so i went to trade of blades, talked to boddyknock or what's his name since i had his item too, and could finish the whole conversation to give me his ring too.
So i think if you want their items and not their company, you just hire them when your lvl is high enough and you get the item. Blablabla and you can get a very nice item for free, most items boost your stats i believe.
This was new for me, so don't make fun of me if you'd already figured this out ages ago.
